There’s a healthy amount of tension and drama in most extended families. You can’t expect everyone to get along all the time. But there’s a big difference between respectfully disagreeing about politics at the dinner table and being a stuck-up jerk for no reason. Redditor u/richnfamous353 turned to r/AmItheAsshole after her husband got mad at her for not packing his bags for a Christmas vacation that she wasn’t even invited to. Sounds like only bags OP should be packing are her own. Redditors in the replies overwhelmingly agreed that she wasn’t the a-hole, though many were very confused as to why she was still in a relationship one. Keep scrolling to read the whole story.