While Kim has been called out for her predatory behavior with Usman on 90 Day Fiancé, she crosses a line by claiming her son Jamal would cuss him out.
90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days star Kimberly Menzies faces backlash from 90 Day Fiancé viewers for demanding intimacy from Usman by bringing up her son Jamal. When Usman moved into Kim’s room, his intention was to get to know her better. However, Kim wanted more. She wore her best nightdress and had the champagne ready.
“You need to make a decision like now,” Kimberly told Usman when he again said no to her advances after moving into her honeymoon suite. Usman complained that Kimberly asking him for sex immediately after he entered her room made him angry and went against his culture. Usman decided to leave as he decided the relationship with Kim wasn’t going to work out. However, Kim used another tactic to try to manipulate Usman. “Cause my son’s gonna cuss him out, and I don’t want that to happen,” Kim told the cameras, which was met with Usman saying “He can’t do that. I have no business with him.” According to Kim, she is all her son has, and Jamal doesn’t trust Usman’s intentions since he’s so much younger than his mother.
Viewers agree that Kim’s excuse of her son not wanting to see her in a “bad place again” and asking Usman, “do you think my son will love the way you treated me right now?” was ridiculous at best. Twitter user @TacomaGwen supported Usman by posting, “Kim’s behavior is so disgusting. Usman has explained he doesn’t want sex right now. Using her son to try & manipulate him into sex is a new low. Imagine if the roles were reversed. No means NO.” Meanwhile, @TheDude9898 echoed their thoughts when they wrote, “Kim threatening Usman with her son because he won’t cave to her endless pressure of having sex is peak crazy. If the genders were reversed the internet would be losing its mind.”
The constant badgering, harassing, and threatening that Kim did with Usman on 90 Day Fiancé made several viewers uncomfortable. As @KissyLouLucy noted, “Kim is certainly creative- I never would have thought of the ‘you’re disrespecting my son by not having sex with me’ angle.” It seems like Kim is demanding intimacy just because she came all the way to Tanzania and bought Usman expensive gifts, which he may not have even asked for. Unfortunately, Kim is one of several cast members this season pressuring their partners for intimacy, in a worrying trend. Regardless of what she says, Usman is not required to sleep with Kim, which is also a condition he made quite clear before they even met.
Besides, more than Jamal not liking the way Usman is treating his mom, he would be embarrassed to see her throwing herself at a man in this way on television. In all the ways that Kim has shown her desperation, dragging her son into a conversation about her sex life was perhaps the most uncalled for. It’s possible Kim’s son didn’t want her to date Usman or go on the show because he predicted it was a bad idea from the start. Either way, it’s no wonder viewers slammed Kim’s recent behavior on 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days.
90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days airs Sundays at 8 p.m. EST on TLC.
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